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Melody Jacob holding flowers on Women's Day

I love celebrating Women's Day even more than I love celebrating my birthday. It's incredible to realize how much women contribute to making the world interesting and functional. As women, we hold immense power, both in our words and actions. We must use it positively. Being a woman is beautiful and magical, and I'm grateful to God for making me one.

Woman holding bouquet of flowers for Women's Day

My partner celebrated me on Women's Day, and I'm overjoyed. Though I didn't ask him about the meaning of the flowers he gave me, I appreciated the gesture. I pray that God blesses and guides him. He surprised me with the flowers on March 8th, and even though I was tired from work, I took photos of them on Sunday, and they turned out beautifully.

Beautiful woman posing with flowers on Women's Day

I would like to briefly touch on the topic that there is more to being a woman than just wearing clothes. I know that many women and girls have focused solely on outward appearance, but as a woman, you possess qualities beyond outward beauty. While external beauty is admirable, in today's society, social media often pressures women to prioritize their appearance over character. Women's Day is not just a celebration; it's a time to reflect on who you are as a woman, to assess if you are utilizing your God-given potential positively and honoring yourself appropriately. Regardless of age, a woman continues to wield significant influence throughout her life.

Blossoming Beauty: Celebrating Women's Day 2024

I just want to use this medium to remind you to take time out to reflect on yourself and evaluate if you have been on the right path. Women, you are strong and beautiful, and you have so much more to offer than what meets the eye. Don't let anyone limit you to just physical looks, you are capable of so much more. Remember let your looks give Glory to God.
Hey there, friends! Today, I want to share with you my special black dressing gown. It's not just any dressing gown – it's my go-to outfit for feeling warm and snug, especially during those chilly nights.

Woman wearing black dressing gown with tie belt and hoodie

So, let's talk about this dressing gown. It's by Hutson Harbour, and it's plain black, which I think looks super cool. It comes with a tie belt and hoodie, so I can wrap myself up like a cozy burrito whenever I want to feel extra warm and toasty. And guess what? It's made of 100% polyester, which is a fancy way of saying it's really soft and comfy. Plus, it's super easy to clean – just throw it in the washing machine, and voila!

"Close-up of soft polyester fabric on black dressing gown

Now, here's a little story for you. My partner got me this dressing gown because he noticed how much I was always shivering and turning up the heater. He wanted to help me stay warm and cozy without having to crank up the heat and spend more money on bills. And let me tell you, this dressing gown has been a lifesaver! I've had it for over a year now, and the quality is still top-notch. It's like having a warm hug every time I put it on.

Partner gifting cozy dressing gown to woman

He got my dressing gown from Tj Hughes, and I have to say, I'm really impressed with the comfort and quality. It's become such a staple in my nighttime routine that I can't imagine going to bed without it, especially during the cold season. It's like my trusty sidekick, keeping me warm and helping me get a good night's sleep.

You know, sometimes it's the little things that make the biggest difference. And for me, this dressing gown is one of those little things. It's not just a piece of clothing – it's a symbol of warmth, comfort, and love. So here's to cozy nights, saving energy, and feeling snug as a bug in my black dressing gown.

Stay warm, my friends!

Woman cuddled up in black dressing gown

Model showcasing versatility by pairing Stone Ribbed Long Sleeve Bodysuit with Black Ruffle Skirt

Hey everyone, hope you're all doing well today! I wanted to tell you about this cool top I picked up from Quiz clothing. It's called the Stone Ribbed Long Sleeve Bodysuit. Let me tell you, it fits like a dream, and the color looks really nice on my skin. I needed something versatile that I could wear to work every day and also mix and match with skirts and pants without any awkward folds, and this top was just perfect for that.



In a world where motherhood is constantly under attack, where we can no longer refer to women who have given birth as mothers, and where some people advocate for calling men "mothers" – a notion many, like myself, with sound minds reject – it's crucial to understand that a mother's role is irreplaceable. A mother carries the instinctual bond with her offspring until her last breath. She endures the pain of childbirth and brings her child into the world, a divine connection ordained by God from the beginning. A mother's love is unparalleled and eternal. On this day, I want to wish all the mothers a beautiful Mother's Day. Keep shining, and may God bless you.

To read my post about my mother on Women's Day click here.

Girl standing with her mother


Yesterday, on my way home from work, I popped into a store and found this lovely black top. With Women’s Day around the corner, I wanted something simple yet beautiful. I picked up a black stretchy zip-front bodysuit top from Quiz Clothing at Buchanan Galleries here in Glasgow. The best part? It was incredibly affordable and fits like a dream.

Afterward, I swung by the Africa store to pick up ingredients for a special Women’s Day meal. It turned out to be so delicious that I ended up eating with such gusto that I got filled and had to save some for this morning's breakfast.

To celebrate Women’s Day in style, I paired the top with pink floral flare pants from H&M and my trusty white Converse sneakers, a thoughtful gift from my partner. A pair of stud earrings from Quiz Clothing added a touch of sparkle. As for my hair, after a week of keeping it pulled back, I opted for a ponytail that I braided and wrapped around due to the rough texture at the back.


Oh, the joy of being a woman! It's truly the greatest gift from God – the ability to bring life into the world, nourish it, nurture it, and even sacrifice for it. It's an incredible privilege that fills me with gratitude every day.

On this International Women’s Day, I want to express my deepest gratitude to my mom, who dedicated herself to our family's well-being, sacrificing so much to make our dreams a reality. She's truly remarkable and has a heart of gold.

My mom is like a guiding light, leading us through life's journey with unwavering love and support. She's patient, always there to lend an ear, and I'm forever grateful to have her as my hero.

Her prayers are like a shield, protecting me from life's challenges. And her wisdom, oh, it's invaluable. From her, I've learned the power of prayer, hard work, kindness, and forgiveness.

She's also an incredible cook – a talent she's been praised for countless times. Her meals are a source of joy and comfort, bringing our family together in love and laughter.

Growing up, she instilled in me the importance of decency, modesty, and self-respect. And her stance against alcohol taught me valuable lessons about health and self-discipline.

But perhaps her greatest gift to me is teaching me the bible. Through her, I've learned to lean on God in times of trouble, knowing that His guidance will always light my path.

I owe everything to my mom and sister. They've shaped me into the woman I am today, and I'll forever cherish their love and wisdom.

Many women can relate to this, and I just want to say to anyone who gets to read this post that it doesn’t matter whether you are being appreciated or not in your own corner; just know that I appreciate you.
Evri, formerly known as Hermes: Delivery person stole my parcel for the fourth time.

On February 29th, I received an email notifying me that my package had arrived from a company called Evri, formerly known as Hermes. Upon returning home, I discovered that the parcel was missing from where it was supposed to be. I checked with my neighbors, but they weren't available. Immediately, I contacted the company to file a complaint. However, despite their automated response promising a callback, I never received one. Repeated attempts to reach them were met with their unresponsive answering machine. It seems impossible to contact them, and they don't attempt to reach out either.

The next day, after returning from work, I asked my neighbors about the parcel, but they said they hadn't seen any delivery, as they hadn't been around.

Checking Instagram, I found numerous complaints from people who had caught Evri drivers/delivery staff on camera stealing their parcels.

Here's how the scheme works: the drivers take a picture of the parcel, send you an email claiming it's been delivered to your doorstep, and then simply walk away with it.

My parcel has been stolen by Evri four times, and I'm frustrated by the lack of communication. I suspect this isn't just a problem among delivery personnel but extends to the company's management benefiting from these thefts.
I tried on these jackets in winter, but none of them were warm enough. They felt more like spring jackets because they weren't very thick. Now that winter is ending, I want to see if they have any left to buy for spring or the time just before winter.

I've been to the Next store many times, and the one in Glasgow is different from the one in Ukraine, especially in terms of quality. In my opinion, the quality and style of things in Ukraine are much better.

Anyway, which one of these Next jackets do you like?

1. Brown Heritage Check Overcoat: This brown overcoat is part of the Rochelle Humes collection. It has a checked pattern and a relaxed fit, perfect for layering. The coat has a classic look with a notched lapel collar and a double-breasted button-up fastening. It also has front slip patch pockets.

- Made from a woolen blend fabric
- Features a heritage check pattern
- Double-breasted design
- Longline style
- Regular fit
- Long sleeves
- Button front fastening
- Front slip patch pockets
- Regular centre back neck to hem: 47 inches (120 cm)
- Dry clean only
- Composition: 51% Polyester, 26% Wool, 13% Acrylic, 6% Nylon, 4% Viscose

Brown Heritage Check Overcoat


2. This is a Camel Belted Long Coat. It's a stylish coat that you can wear many times. You can wear it over casual clothes every day or as the final touch to a more formal outfit. It has a belt to cinch in at the waist, a shawl collar, and buttons on the cuffs and shoulders. It also has flap pockets on the front.

- Belted to cinch in at the waist
- Shawl collar
- Button detailing on the cuffs
- Flap pockets on the front

Regular length from the back of the neck to the hem: 48 inches (122 cm)
It's washable and made of 100% Polyester.
Beautiful black woman holding a valentine's day card

February is almost over, and while we eagerly anticipate spring, the weather continues to fluctuate. I had been delaying sharing my Valentine's gift due to a backlog of posts. However, as February draws to a close, I decided it's now or never. I received flowers, a card, and plenty of delicious treats.

My partner surprised me with a lovely card and a bouquet of flowers. I cherish life's simple pleasures, finding joy in even the smallest moments. The card and flowers brought me immense happiness, filling my heart with warmth and countless smiles.

Receiving flowers is always a delightful gesture, although I understand not everyone shares the same sentiment. I texted my partner to inquire about the meaning behind the flowers and attached is a screenshot of his reply.

Even though the flower was near a window and heater, altering its look, I was determined to capture its beauty. I'm thankful for my partner's thoughtful gift, which brought me joy. I pray God blesses and guides him. Amen.

Did you also receive wonderful gifts for Valentine's? Feel free to share your experiences!

My Valentine's Day Gifts from My Partner

Black woman holding a flower

Last year, when I met up with my friend in Edinburgh, we had a good time. We enjoyed part of the Christmas holiday together, and it was amazing walking around the Christmas market. During one of her shopping rounds, she decided to gift me this bracelet. I was supposed to open it before Christmas, but I did not because I wanted to do it in my own time and also read the note she put inside at my own pace.

So, finally, I opened it this February, and I must say it is lovely. This bracelet is such a wonderful gift that I don't take it for granted. She has been an amazing friend and sister.

This Dyadema bracelet says 'sista,' meaning sister. I remember her writing a note in the hotel and putting it inside the gift, and I read it and just felt I should share it with you all. There are people you will meet, and you appreciate their presence in your life, and I really appreciate my friend.

Dyadema bracelet

I want to say a big thank you to my friend Ebubechi for this loving and beautiful gift. This 18kt gold-plated bracelet is made in Italy by Dyadema.

Before you ask me why I didn't open it, I have this thing where I just keep saving things that are so meaningful to me and also keeping them hidden from myself, lol, and then I say, 'Okay, I need to open it.' I am so happy to share her beautiful note; I appreciate every word.

Friendship note from my friend

Dear God,

Today, I come before You with a grateful heart, lifting up my dear friend to Your loving embrace. I declare ease in her life, Lord, and I ask that You keep her and make her shine brightly in Your light. Guide her steps, Father, and lead her along the path of Your divine plan for her life. Protect her from all harm and evil, and surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.

Lord, when the time comes for her to enter into the sacred covenant of marriage, I pray that You will lead her to a man who fears You, a man who will love her unconditionally and support her in her journey. May their union be blessed by Your presence, and may they grow old together, hand in hand, walking in Your ways.

Thank You, Lord, for the gift of friendship and for the opportunity to lift each other up in prayer. May Your will be done in her life, now and always. In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.
Woman wearing a burgundy berry flower clip fascinator from Quiz Clothing

Fascinators are super cool, but they're also kind of old-school! They've got that vintage vibe that I totally love, but what's awesome is how versatile they are. Seriously, they make you stand out in the best way possible. When I took these photos, I couldn't help but smile. It's like, the best feeling ever when everything turns out just the way you planned it!

Now, let's chat about this totally adorable Quiz Clothing berry flower clip fascinator! Burgundy is, like, my absolute favorite color. Not too red, not too dark—just perfect!

So, why do I love this fascinator so much? Well, for starters, it's the perfect size—not too big, not too small. It adds so much glam and drama to my look without being too over the top. I pinned it to the side of my hair, but you can totally try it at the back too! Plus, this fascinator has the cutest flower design, feather detail, and it clips on super easily.

The quality of this fascinator is great when compared to the price. It is well-glued and, if handled carefully, can last for a long time.

You can order it online or pop into the store to grab one, just like I did!

Oh, and here are some tips for styling your fascinator:
- Make sure the color matches your outfit or keep it neutral.
- If you want to look classy, go for a simple fascinator. It adds just the right amount of elegance!
- One-color fascinators are so easy to match with your outfits.

So, what do you think of this Quiz Clothing Fascinator? Let me know in the comments below!

Side view of a woman with a burgundy berry fascinator clipped to her hair.

Fashion blogger wearing a stylish burgundy berry fascinator.

Woman posing confidently with her burgundy berry fascinator.

Front view of a woman with a burgundy berry fascinator clipped to her hair.

Woman looking chic and elegant in her burgundy berry fascinator from Quiz Clothing.

Woman showcasing the versatility of her burgundy berry fascinator

Close-up of the flower design and feather detail on the burgundy berry fascinator
7 ways to save energy during winter

7 ways to save energy during winter

I am not having it with the electric bill; it keeps skyrocketing, and I am not even gonna lie, I am a bit worried. Previously, I was in Ukraine, where the heating bill is so affordable and it is always on all winter, but moving to the U.K., the difference is so much. Another thing I noticed about the UK is that the windows aren't properly insulated to prevent cold from entering the house. Where I used to live, the structure of houses was built to suit the winter period more.

But, well, life happens, and we all get to move and relocate; this is also what challenges us to think outside the box and create innovative solutions to problems.

Winter isn't my favorite season, but these winter essentials will not only keep you warm but also cut down on your heating bills.

To maintain health, our bodies must maintain a core temperature of 37 degrees Celsius, so rooms must be heated to a minimum of 18 degrees Celsius. Concerns exist, however, that individuals will be unable to use heating to keep themselves and their homes warm throughout the winter months as the cost of living continues to rise.

During the cold season, people get sick due to the cold while trying to save money, and I know how frustrating that can be, which is why in this article I will be discussing 5 winter essentials that will help reduce your electric bills.

There are numerous things you can do to keep your core body temperature stable without turning on the central heating for an extended period of time.

1. Always wear socks.

Socks are essential, but not many people will agree. When you're feeling cold, it's a regular thing to put on socks. Also, wearing socks has a good effect on the temperature of your feet, but why is this so? Given that socks only cover a small portion of your body, why do they have such an impact on the experience of being cold?

Socks keep us warm by regulating the temperature of our feet. Our feet are essential temperature sensors for our bodies, and wearing socks helps prevent heat from escaping from our feet. You can double the socks for a warmer effect.

On a cold day at home, wrap the paper around your toes for extra warmth. You can also walk around with this, but first experiment at home beforehand to ensure that you are comfortable while walking. Keeping your feet warm during the winter is essential not only for foot health and comfort but also for your entire health. According to foot specialists, cold feet can weaken the immune system and exacerbate some health disorders, such as diabetes.

2. A heated blanket.

I love the creativity of the heated blanket. An electric blanket is significantly less expensive to operate than a heater and provides a consistent source of heat throughout the night. Weighted blankets are also very relaxing and help to keep draughts out of the bed.

Double up on your bedding. You can spread a blanket over your mattress before putting a bedsheet over it.

Avoid bedding materials that make you feel cold. There are bedding materials that cannot retain heat. Buy your bedding according to the season and do a little research before purchasing.

3. Head warmer.

Head warmers, as their name suggests, are used to keep the head warm, especially in the winter. People have gotten a lot of use out of head warmers because, in the winter, it's important to keep all parts of your body warm.

4. Dress warmly.

As the seasons change, dress accordingly. When you arrive home from work, all you want to do is turn on the heater, remove your warm clothes, and put on a light indoor outfit in order to feel completely at ease. When you return, I recommend that you remove those heavy, warm outdoor clothes and replace them with lighter ones. Rest for approximately one hour before wearing your warm home clothes.

Pajamas made of insulating materials like fleece or flannel will help you sleep through the night without getting too cold.

A hooded Flannel Night Robe is a soft, comfortable, and soft winter robe that will keep you warm all winter. Perfect for sleeping at night and keeping warm all day long. There are different flannel nightrobes that are fashionable and colorful, so you don't have to worry about looking dull.



Onesies are warm and cozy. Wear them.


5. Indoor warm shoes.

When the body is more susceptible to seasonal coughs, colds, and viruses, keeping your feet warm in cold weather can also aid in maintaining your general health. Warmer feet dilate the blood vessels, allowing for more effective blood flow and assisting your body in redistributing heat throughout the body. As a result, you can sleep better, regain energy, and generally take better care of yourself to be comfortable, fit, and healthy.

This winter, wearing slip-on slippers around the house is an excellent method to care for your feet, retain heat, and keep your toes and feet toasty and cozy. There are slippers for every fashion style and personality, ranging from thick slipper socks with sticky soles to fleece-lined slipper boots with foot and ankle support.

6. Hot water bottle.

A hot water bottle is not expensive and long-lasting due to the material used in making it. They are a safe source of warmth throughout the night.

7. Eat well.

In general, longer-digesting foods might help boost body temperature and make you feel warmer. The medical word for this process is "thermogenesis," which refers to the body's production of heat as a result of food metabolism. Consider consuming foods that are rich in healthy fats, proteins, and carbohydrates.

Foods you can eat during the winter that will help you stay warm. Eat foods that can help boost your body temperature and make you feel warmer. Here are some healthy foods that can help you stay warm during the winter.

Avoid alcohol because whisky and other alcoholic beverages actually lower the core body temperature. You may initially feel warm, but it will be difficult to remain warm over time. Additionally, alcohol affects your capacity to shiver, which is a natural way to elevate body temperature. Avoid drinking alcohol at tailgates and other outdoor activities this winter to stay warm.
Tomorrow will be the 1st of February, which marks the beginning of our countdown to Valentine's Day. This has become a tradition for many people, and for some, it is a way to celebrate love and reach out to other people.

So here's the thing: I am here to help you out with your Valentine's Day gift guide for her. These ideas will help you make the right choice. Surely you can't go wrong with this Valentine's Day gift. The items on this list will make her happy. They're all from Amazon.

This is a classy pump 
This is a perfect bag which is available in different colors.






The perfect classic fedora beach hat.



She will appreciate this comfortable flats



This vegan large retro handmade shoulder leather bag is perfect for her summer beach visits, and Travel.

This 14K Dainty Gold Plated Stackable Bracelets will melt her heart





This Rose Bear-Valentine's Day Gift is perfect for Her.


This is one of my all-time favorite. A classy basic sweater.



This bag will be her favorite


Sometimes it’s the cheap finds that bring the most joy to getting dressed. Cheap and Cheerful is a weekly column that highlights the chicest, most inexpensive finds. Because spending less to look good is the greatest satisfaction.

This natural basket bag is perfect for a summer beach chill. Available in yellow, pink, and orange, this is the classic summer for the shore. Handcrafted lightweight raffia straw and lined with smooth linen.
Pack your sunglasses, sunscreen, water bottle, and favorite book; slide your cell phone or keys into the bag; and secure the interior with the zip-snap closure. 100% Raffia Straw. 100% linen lining.
Purchase from Szaleo.pl.

I like straw bags because they give you the perfect summer holiday vibe. Check out these affordable straw bags.


Happy Friends With Arms Outstretched in City during Winter

Who is excited about Valentine Day, which is on February 14? Are you getting ready? Do you have any plans for Valentine's Day? which is in less than three months. This post is strictly for men. There are lots of reasonable gifts that you can give your boyfriend or husband. These are gifts that are not so romantic to some people, but I consider them useful and practical gifts. Be creative when giving out Valentine's Day gifts to your lover. Guys appreciate cute handmade items, and it brings a lot of sentimental feelings.

The truth about gifting is that we gift according to our pockets, so your gift ideas might not be the same as mine because you have less or more money than me.



5 Valentine's day gift ideas for men.

An art piece of any kind.
The purpose of artwork is to express one's self, and this is a way to express your love. You can hand paint it yourself if you know how to do it, or get someone to draw or paint something that signifies and makes a whole lot to him.



Body care products.
Body and beauty care products help enhance our appearance, and this is a means to show you care about everything. Little things count.




Clothing and accessories
 Make sure you buy him clothing items that suits his style.



Electronics gadgets.
You can gift him a gadget he really loves but never got or replace a gadget of his that is faulty.


Books 
If he loves reading, you can gift him books from his favorite authors.


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